I feel like I am thoroughly confused by people every day. It seems like I never learn to expect the unexpected. People’s actions baffle me. I don’t understand why people are sometimes so nasty, when they don’t really need to be. I think some people think that being an asshole gives them the upper hand. They derive some deluded sense of power and probably feel like they have achieved something.
I know I’m probably ranting and this isn’t the most positive post. But unfortunately, I’m facing a lot different characters in my life, some from the same people and some from different people. It doesn’t cost anything to be nice. Being aggressive is not the same as being assertive. I think a lot of people mistake that. When you are in control, people should respect you. And if you need to make people respect you there’s always a better way to do it. Even a complaint can be done with some class, without dragging everything through the mud.
Ok….. I’m ending my rant here. I look forward to a world where people are nicer to each other, less arrogant and less deceitful.
lol I know its frustrating when you encounter an unpleasant person who seems unjustified in their attitude (or pushing their negative attitude on you). Just remember to empathize and know that there might be something overwhelming taking place in their life. I’m guilty 🙂